Missing In China

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LOL, yes, sometimes life gets in the way. Who would have known that my new, full-time job as a blogger for the wedding, events and hospitality industry would have taken off so fast?

Wedding Ghost originally started off with me blogging for wedding professionals. Mostly wedding planners, decorators and photographers. Since its start, I’ve started working with a number of venues, cake decorators, and caterers.

I’ve always been super passionate about food. It was my first love and with a formal education in Culinary Arts from the Culinary Institute of America, and working in the industry for close to 25 years; blogging for restaurant groups, caterers, craft food companies and bakers was second nature.

Check out some of my food reviews on Yelp!

On top of keeping really busy, we just got back from an awesome trip to China. Gate 1 Travel was amazing again! We started in Beijing, flew to Xi’an, took a bullet train to Chengdu, took a trip to Chongqing and embarked on a three-day riverboat cruise on the Yangtze River ending in Yichang and then wrapped up with a few days in Shanghai!

We saw some AMAZING sites including two of the 7 Wonders of the Modern World – The Great Wall of China and The Terracotta Warriors of Xi’an, and we spent a lot of time with Pandas!

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Not to mention some crazy food!

WHEW!

Honestly, we had a blast!!!

To see more of our trip to China and read some of my blogging check out In Search of Neverland!

So, here’s the poop…

Anyone who knows me absolutely knows that #AuthenticallyMark is VERY tongue and cheek; there is no other version of Mark, I have very little filter, I’m honest to a fault.

Which is actually why I don’t drink vodka, because then I would have NO FILTER, whatever comes to my brain comes out of my mouth.

But, I digress. Authentically Mark was designed to be a creative writing outlet for my cooking, adventures, for prospective Wedding Ghost clients to see some of my writing style and to talk about things that no one else will.

Today’s topic is poop! We all do it, no one ever talks about it and one of the last things anyone wants to do is have to use a bathroom anywhere around people you work with or know.

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Chuck and I love to travel and we often cruise. If you’ve ever been on a cruise ship the cabins are not only really, really tiny but no matter where in the cabin you are no more than five feet from the rest of the room. And, to make matters worse you are right next to the door and the hallway.

Industry networking events! UGH! You are in bathroom filled with people you work with and network with all of the time…

So, my sister-in-law (hi pee-boo!) told us about this crazy product called Poo-Pourri; and she swears by it. It’s a small spray bottle of scented liquid. The instructions say that you pump 5-6 spritzes onto the water before using and it creates a barrier that keeps smells locked in.

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I was REALLY skeptical and this holiday season I happened to be in Bed, Bath and Beyond and saw a display of various sizes. I figured I didn’t want to waste too much money when this didn’t work so I got the tiny travel size.

AND IT WORKS!

Truly, it’s amazing, I got the Citrus scented and it’s really beautiful. I’m not sure exactly how it works but it does and I’m hooked; we have one in each bathroom.

As if this wasn’t awesome enough, their YouTube videos are hysterical! Check these out:

 

 

Looking at 2018 Wedding Trends

As 2017 draws to a close and we start to look at the upcoming engagement season; I always enjoy looking ahead to wedding trends for the next year.

The wedding industry follows the fashion industry; truthfully, nearly everything follows the fashion industry… You only have to watch “The Devil Wears Prada” to learn that.

Bohemian (you know, Boho) started its emergence in 2017 and is coming on strong in 2018; we’ll see the 1970’s craft macramé showing up everywhere, knotted rope designs in beautiful patterns will be seen in ceremony backdrops, covering chuppahs and as decor on sweetheart tables.

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Macrame

Pantone picked “Greenery” as one of the 2017 colors of the year; and it’s not going away, we’re going to see foliage everywhere! Not just in rustic and garden party décor but in more classic, elegant, traditional décor design as well. Everything from green plants lining the aisle, to being incorporated into living bars and food stations. Unique leaves and ivy will show up in centerpieces, tablescapes and of course bouquets; flowering bouquets of dogwood with all of the greenery intact will be big this spring.

While romantic white weddings will continue to be popular, we’ll see bold, rich colors coming back again; making appearances in linen, flowers, stationery and candles.

Texture, texture in everything; not just macramé and foliage but in linen and gowns too… we’ll see lots of couples accenting tables with everything from velvet, to embroidery and pearls.

Pearls, are not just for earrings anymore; we’ll see them on linen, wedding gowns and other accents beyond jewelry.

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Pearls

Two of my personal favorites… smaller wedding parties and incorporating fun, interesting food stations into the reception. Everything from upscale Mexican street food to Korean and Peruvian will be highlighted in curated stations and passed hors d’oeuvres.

With these predictions and trends moving forward… what is the one trend from 2017 you’ll be happy to see go?

 

Authentically Us!

Today’s post goes beyond Authentically Mark into Authentically US; the us being me and my husband Chuck.

When we moved to our house in St Petersburg we decided that all of our Disney memorabilia would be condensed into one guest room; ‘the kids room’. Truthfully, not a lot of kids stay there… just a few big kids who deal with the twin beds.

Chuck would decorate our master bedroom. We had selected a bedroom set made with reclaimed wood and some of the vintage citrus labels we framed in Clermont really worked well there; beyond that it was all him.

Our second guest room got our old, dark wood bedroom set and my goal was decorating it in something that was REALLY reflective of the two of us; I decided on capturing the two of us and our love of travel.

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Authentically Mark, Herring, Amsterdam, Hungry Bird Food Tour

We had a ton of pictures from past vacations; many we had never done anything with other than posting to social media. We set out to pick out fun, interesting and unique images of us from every vacation.

The first thing you learn is that you have lots of pictures of STUFF; neat architecture, random doors, interesting people, food landscapes, and historic locations. The second thing we learned is that we tend to have images of each of us individually, taken by each other. LOL

When we travel, we are all about experiences; rather than stuff. However, we always buy one Christmas ornament (that’s a story for another post); and we love to buy some local art. The local art makes a great addition to the photos.

The biggest rule for the guest room is no rules – all of the frames are miss matched, we hung them in more of a collage style than a gallery as we’re filling the entire room, and mixing in the local art is pretty random too.

This gallery will continue to grow… we’ve already added some carved masks from Africa (thank you Disney Animal Kingdom), in preparation for a bucket list trip.

Anyone who stays in this guest room will know it is #AuthenticallyMark (and Chuck)!

 

 

Mark Kingsdorf, Wedding Ghost, Blogger, Wedding Planner,

#AuthenticallyMark2.0

He’s BACK!!!!!!

OK, OK, so I took a vacation from blogging… I was really good about posting blogs after the first of the year about healthier eating and taking care of myself.

In May we put the house on the market, packed, sold the house, found a house in St. Petersburg Florida and moved. (Breathe).  I was at my in-law’s place in Leesburg while I finished up my position at the Mission Inn Resort, spending days off in St Pete with Chuck.

We explored St Pete, went on a cruise to Alaska with my siblings and unfortunately lost Chuck’s mother while we were away.  We returned home in time to batten down the hatches, just in time for Hurricane Irma.

While I was somewhat still working on healthier eating, the extra walking fizzled a bit. I held my weight but didn’t lose any more.  Blog posts were shortened to Facebook posts; as life got in the way.

As many of you have seen, I recently launched “Wedding Ghost” as a ghost blogging company for wedding professionals from across the country.

Part of the allure of Wedding Ghost is the privacy; busy wedding professionals can have me write and post blogs for them, just as they would if they had the time and ability to drive their SEO.

Sometimes people who never read my blog at the the Philadelphia wedding planning company I founded,  The Queen of Heart Wedding Consultants, ask to see samples of my writing. But, I can’t (for privacy sake) send them to client’s blogs… so this blog is coming back with a wide range of topics, all Authentically Mark.

You’ll see some of St. Petersburg’s great murals, fun restaurants and breweries; sometimes it’ll be the beaches, our travels, my cooking or random quips.

The one thing to remember is that the writing will be authentically me… the same as when I blog for a client, it will reflect the uniqueness of their business, local market and their personality.

Thanks for coming along for this Authentically Mark ride.